He sneaked Suzanne’s favorite snacks into her purse as a workday surprise and insisted early on that she keep a key to his apartment. V.—an act roughly equivalent, in today’s gallantry currency, to Perseus rescuing Andromeda from the sea monster.He asked her to help him choose a couch and then spooned with her on all the floor models. As we learn from the podcast “Reply All,” which reported the tale, Suzanne was not the only woman on whom John had chosen to bestow his favor.That's right, they've got someone else — or worst case scenario, several others — on the go and as a result they're quite literally stashing you away.By pretending that they're not actually dating you by failing to acknowledge your existence publicly, they're able to justify seeing other people and getting up to whatever they like, guilt-free.John was a champion girlfriend accumulator, the ringmaster of a romantic circus that only he could see.Every so often, one of his paramours would catch on and alert the others.(John, who was white, pursued only Asian women, leaving his girlfriends with the icky sense that they’d been fetishized as well as deceived.) Still, romantic scammers aren’t an invention of modern courtship and its digital devices.
Play by these new rules and you’ll score again and again. NEW: Women checking men out.● Think your zipper’s undone? Using eye-tracking technology, scientists from the Kinsey Institute for Research in Sex, Gender, and Reproduction found that women are actually more likely to have wandering eyes than men.This latest dating phenomenon (we use that term very loosely) happens at the stage during a relationship when you're pretty much "official," reports Metro.THE SURPRISING REASON WHY PEOPLE IN THEIR 20S CHEAT, ACCORDING TO A NEW STUDY You've been seeing each other for a while, things are going pretty well — until you suddenly realize something.Then he’d block them all on social media and begin the whole thing again.In one sense, this is a story about the exploitative possibilities of online matchmaking: the opportunities to flagrantly misrepresent oneself, the ease of trawling for specific targets.At the Sugar Baby Summit in London, self-confessed sugar babies learn how to secure rich sugar daddies to shower them with money and gifts.