We text each other most days and he phones me most weekends after a night out.
The problem is I’ve started to feel more for him which I hadn’t planned to do and a couple of weeks ago when I was drunk I told him.
Though this seems cold, you must remember that this little mistake of adding an emotional element into the fuck buddy relationship always manifests into something greater and then if your partner isn’t on the same level of emotional attachment as you, it usually ends bad. It’s Just Sex Many times people think they can handle having emotionless sex where nothing else but the sex drive is being satisfied, but sometimes after going at it for quite some time, they may get too close to their partner on a level that is beyond the main purpose of fuck buddies, which is sex.
Remember, once you’ve slept with the fuck buddy, there is no need to go on dates of any kind except to the bedroom.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated as my friends are giving me mixed advice. If you like the sex and want to keep sleeping with him with no strings attached, as he wants to do, then go ahead and do that.
However, since you’ve pointed out that you like him and want a relationship with him, I guarantee that it will be tormenting and unsatisfying for you in the long-run if you continue to sleep with him when you feel like you need more than that. Don’t mention going out and when he asks to meet up for “fun”, just say you can’t that evening.
The problem with continuing to see him in a fuck-buddy relations is that you’ll enjoy the sex, but will eventually get really fed up with the fact that he only calls you when he wants to fuck, if that hasn’t already begun. A fuck-buddy telling a woman that he isn’t ready for a relationship sort of means that he just doesn’t want to take things to the next level and complicate the whole thing. Then wait a few days or maybe a couple of weeks and just keep texting him and whatever, just make sure not to meet up.
After all, you both want the same thing - sex in the absence of emotional attachment!
Though entering into a casual relationship with someone sounds so easy, there are still some rules that each partner should follow to keep the practice completely safe for both parties.